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Self-Discipline The Bible says,
“And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake,
the same shall save it. For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away? For whosoever
shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in
his Father's, and of the holy angels.” Luke 9:23-26 (KJV) Daniel
Goleman, in his book, Emotional Intelligence writes: “The essence of emotional self-regulation is the ability
to delay impulse in the service of a goal. The importance of this trait to success was shown in an experiment begun in the
1960s by psychologist Walter Mischel at a preschool on the Stanford University campus. Children were told that they could
have a single treat, such as a marshmallow, right now. However, if they would wait while the experimenter ran an errand, they
could have two marshmallows. Some preschoolers grabbed the marshmallow immediately, but others were able to wait what, for
them, must have seemed an endless 20 minutes. To sustain themselves in their struggle, they covered their eyes so they wouldn’t
see the temptation, rested their heads on their arms, talked to themselves, sang, even tried to sleep. These plucky kids got
the two-marshmallow reward. The interesting part of this experiment came in the follow-up. The children who as 4-year-olds
had been able to wait for the two marshmallows were, as adolescents, still able to delay gratification in pursuing their goals.
They were more socially competent and self-assertive, and better able to cope with life’s frustrations. In contrast,
the kids who grabbed the one marshmallow were, as adolescents, more likely to be stubborn, indecisive, and stressed. There is strength in the name of the Lord! Daily Chronological Bible Reading:
2 Kings 24-25; 2 Chronicles 36
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